The Alliance Blog
Chronicles of a Therapist as a New Mom: The Comparison Conundrum
A therapist and new mom shares her personal journey with parenting anxiety, self-judgment, and the "comparison conundrum," inspired by a viral Bluey episode. Learn simple strategies for self-regulation and finding perspective to combat parental overwhelm.
Supporting Children Through Divorce: First Steps Toward Healthy Adjustment
A guide for parents navigating divorce, focusing on the first steps to support children's healthy adjustment. Learn how to minimize parental conflict, maintain routines, align on co-parenting structures, and understand age-specific needs for children (ages 2–18) to thrive post-separation.
Protective Optimism in Early Childhood: Why Overconfidence Isn’t a Problem
Discover why "protective optimism"—the tendency for young children to overestimate their abilities—is a crucial factor for persistence, self-efficacy, and positive early childhood development.
Making Space for Children: A Year of Play, Connection, and Community
As another year comes to a close, we find ourselves reflecting on the extraordinary moments of play, learning, and community that have filled 2025.
The Role of Risk in Play and Learning
Real play means taking risks – physical, social, and even cognitive.
Ask Molly Pope: Biting at Daycare
Dear Molly,
There’s a child at my son’s daycare who keeps biting him. I’ve already spoken with the director, but it’s still happening,
Why Learning by Doing Matters in the Early Years
One of the great joys of my experience at The Alliance has been watching young children learn not by sitting still, but by moving, exploring, testing, and trying again
What I Would Tell Her: Parenting Reflections on the Drive to College
Moments like these invite reflection, and, sometimes, a rush of what-ifs.
Messy Play: Why It Matters and How You Can Support It
Messy play, also known as sensory play, isn’t just fun. It’s a powerful, open-ended way for children to learn and grow.